Ok So lets try this again. I know there were couple of "Post your desktop" or "what desktop theme do you use" type of threads but this one is different.
The program is called lite-step. It modifies your OS front end, which is the desktop according to your prefs.
http://www.ls-themes.org/
http://www.litestep.net/
has anyone used it before?
(TO THOSE WHO DO NOT HAVE THIS: DO NOT DOWNLOAD THIS TOOL UNTIL YOU HAVE THOROUGHLY OBSERVED THE ENTIRE SITE AND ARE CERTAIN THAT IT WILL NOT CRASH YOUR COMPUTER SINCE I HAVENT TRIED IT IN 10 YEARS)